My husband and I do things together and we also have our own hobbies. He really likes scooters and has four. He is shopping for another as I type. I really like books and have several thousand. I can read more than one at a time and often do. He can only ride one at a time, but he gives them all a turn. I suppose it sounds like a lot to many people and maybe it is, but we worked for everything we have. I had my first job at 14 and Terry has worked all of his adult life. We both commuted to our jobs, did our best to put in a fair days work, and earned our pay. No lottery winnings, no gifts of money, no bequeaths from family, we worked. It’s a good way to get what you want.